#16

Gender (optional): Female

Age (optional): 16

Problem/Issue/Question/Comment: I know guys can hardly tell if they like someone and I like my guy friend since high school. Well, he had a gf who was also our classmate and after they broke up, i think he started flirting with me. I dont even know if he really flirted with me. *I’m one of the boys btw.*

He’d ask me if I wanted to go to the mall, text me to go to the school immediately and I’d see him waiting and sitting on the bench smiling at me while I’m walking towards him, ask my schedules, ask how I’m doing, once took me to our class room, only the two of us in there. We didn’t talk though. We just sat there silently, ask me if he could go with me whenever I have left something behind in our classroom or I need to talk to some teachers. once asked me if I wanted to be in his room when I visited his house. Of course, I refused & laughs at my jokes.

After the HS graduation, I started catching him starring/looking at me. We’ve made few eye contacts already. He’d ask for high fives. *He don’t do this to other girls.* He still asks how am I doing. He’s pretty much interested with my stories. He’d ask what I’ve been up to. He watched a movie twice because of me. We are in the same circle of friends but every time our friends would tell something about him, I’m pretty much involved “into his business” if you know what I mean. He tried to go to an event I attended. He seems excited when we go out on group date. He still laughs at my jokes.

But last time I saw him.. he acted very weird.
He seemed uncomfortable/nervous/excited (e.g. walked around, smiled alot.) He was looking at me while smiling because I had a headband on..

And I just turned 16 this December, three days after his birthday.. and he had a surprise for me which was a call from him *he’s abroad now* but I wasn’t able to see our another friend so he’d do it next time and I asked why he didn’t call me directly and said he had OTHER PLANS. Like WTH.

I want to know if he likes me or not. Advices will be appreciated too. SORRY IF LONG!!

Wow, that was pretty confusing lol.  Sounds like he’s interested in you, but you were a little hard to follow, so I’m a little unsure of some of the details.  Honestly, I think you should just bring it up and ask him sometime.  Maybe not in such a  blunt way, but if he’s sending you signals and appears to be flirting, you should say, “are you flirting with me?”, of course say it in the type of voice that shows that you like it.  Love is such a mystery, because most people are afraid to communicate about it, so instead they sit there wondering.  Don’t sit there wondering, speak up and communicate about it.